Blowjob Tips

FOREPLAY

It may be surprising to hear, but men love foreplay to be drawn out significantly longer more than most women think. So, while giving him a quickie BJ can be super hot for both of you (like say sneaking away for a few minutes at a party), you’ll find that a slow, teasing build up is going to result in your man blowing a bigger load …and a bigger smile on his face. This is probably the most powerful, but also the most overlooked blow job tip you can learn. With this in mind, here are a bunch of great “ foreplay” tips that you can use before giving your man head.

Hand Massage – This one is probably the easiest to get right. While you are kissing him or just talking to him or while you’re just physically close to him, put your hand on his crotch. So your hand should be resting on his briefs or his trousers. To make it smooth, start by first placing your hand on his leg and moving it up from there. Then just softly start massaging his penis and testicles outside of his trousers/briefs.

It’s as simple as softly running your hands over this area, but you can also get a little more aggressive by softly grabbing and squeezing his cock and balls and then releasing the pressure.

After massaging him for a few minutes, help him take off his trousers and briefs. Then just keep doing what you were doing, running your hands over his manhood. If you like, you can also softly trace your fingers up and down his dick and around his balls. If you want to learn more hand job techniques, then make sure to follow my blog.

Talking To Him On Your Knees

Another great blow job tip to build up to giving your man head is talking to your man while on your knees. You can start off with something simple like, “So what do you want me to do now, baby?” while holding his penis in your hands …you can be sure that he’s going to ask you to give him a blow job.

As you become more confident and see his enthusiasm, you can start expanding your dirty talking, by

Telling him how much you are enjoying giving him oral sex. That you can’t wait to taste his cum. How giving him a blow job turns you on.

Of course, you can also talk dirty throughout your blow job too. The Dirty Talking Guide will teach everything you need to know about talking dirty.

So Close – Another blow job tip you can do to build up to your blow job is to work around his manhood first. So instead of just taking him into your mouth and giving him a blow job, you could:

Kiss around his crotch and groin. Gently massage his balls using your tongue. Softly “tickle” his testicles with the tips of your fingers.

The Kiss  – A red hot blow job tip that allows you to move smoothly from kissing your husband to taking him in your mouth is to work slowly down from his lips to his penis by kissing your way down. So you can move from his lips to his neck to his chest to his stomach until your reach his groin area. Of course, this works way better if he is naked.

If you want to learn more great foreplay tips, then make sure to check out the Bad Girl’s Bible Foreplay Guide here.

Now let’s learn what blow job tips will drive your man wild.....

FLICK THE FRENULUM

For many men, the most sensitive spot on their penis is their frenulum. The frenulum is the underside of the tip of their penis, where the glans joins his shift.

An intensely pleasurable blow job tip that you can use on him is to use the tip of your tongue to apply a gentle flicking motion to it. While you are naturally going to stimulate his frenulum while sucking him  or just licking his penis, this technique is different as you will be focusing all your stimulation on a very specific point on his penis.

Flicking his frenulum can be the perfect way to start off your blow jobs before taking his entire dick in your mouth. You can flick it up-and-down, side-to-side, in circles or by doing a combination of all three.

Bear in mind that if your man has been circumcised, there is a chance that his frenulum has been removed.

KISS, KISS

Another great way to start off your blow job is by kissing his cock all over. Kissing is great if you like taking things slowly and teasing your man.

You can kiss his penis any way you want, but it will be a lot easier when you use your hand to hold it in place while you kiss it. There are multiple different ways to kiss his penis, from giving him small, quick ‘pecks’, to giving him longer, more intense kisses. He’ll especially love it if you give him extra wet, sloppy kisses. Don’t be surprised if you can see precum or semen dripping from his cock at this stage.

Kissing him is a fabulous way to pull back if you feel him getting close to climaxing and want him to wait a little longer before reaching orgasm. It will also give your jaw a rest if you find it getting tired from having him in your mouth.

THE THING WITH TEETH

You already know how sensitive your boyfriend’s penis is, especially the underside of head (the glans) For pleasuring it, this is obviously a good thing …but if you apply too much pressure, or you are too rough with it, then you’re going to hurt your man. It’s the same for your clit and vagina if you are masturbating or your man is going down on you.

Just imagine how sore it would be if your boyfriend had nails that were constantly catching on you …or worse, can you imagine how painful it would be if he started using his teeth on you as he was licking you out and performing cunnilingus. It would be agony!

The only mandatory blow job tip when giving your man oral sex is that you absolutely must not use your teeth on him. It can completely ruin an otherwise fantastic BJ. But what if he is particularly well endowed …or you have a small mouth?

In situations like this, it can be almost impossible to avoid using your teeth as you take him into your mouth. The first thing you can do is to wrap your lips around your teeth so that your lips act as a soft barrier. The second thing is focusing on techniques where you don’t take him into your mouth like these ones or by giving him a handjob (H.P)

Side note: There is a small percentage of men that enjoy it when you use your teeth and apply a tiny bit of pressure on his penis, using an almost featherlight touch on him. My advice is never to try this UNTIL your man mentions it himself.

BLOWING HIM

Many women are so anxious at the thought of giving head to their man, that they just get straight to it with little or no build up and with no teasing. It’s like they are focused only on making him ejaculate and getting that sperm out of him. Gently teasing your man and building up the sexual tension, so that he is practically begging you to blow him is vital if you want to take your blow jobs from good to great.

One great way to amp up the sexual tension and have him squirming in delight is to lick him gently, making sure to use lots of saliva and then blow on the wet patch you’ve created. Blowing on a wet patch creates a cooling sensation that is great for teasing your man and making him moan with pleasure